That would be like interviewing people with no specific job in mind.
That’s the way young women date, and you’re not that naïve. At this point in your life you have probably been married before, have kids or made the choice to have neither.
As long as both people keep an open line of communication and respect each other, there is no reason a relationship between an older woman and younger man can’t work out.
Don’t put an expiration date on your relationship, unless a short fling is what you’re looking for.
On the other hand, older women are already established, are more comfortable in their skin and are finished with all the BS games they played when they were younger.
This is a big reason why younger men find older women so attractive.
Also, discuss how you will handle the situation if your families are opposed to the relationship, and talk about the elephant in the room.Justin Lehmiller, a social psychologist in the Department of Psychology at Harvard University in his blog, the Psychology of Human Sexuality.