I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone.” Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and are oblivious to the wants and needs of others.
They enter into relationships in an attempt to fill this void and to make sure that they have someone who is always available for sex, an ego stroke or whatever need they may have.
This kind of idolization is what others would call infatuation.
The victim is likely so caught up in all the attention and is usually thinking at this point, that they have found their soul-mate.
Days or weeks could go by and you won’t hear from them.Typically, they will choose a victim based on their status.They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area.Narcissists become bored easily and what usually starts happening in their heads at this stage, is that the void begins to emerge again.
The high they were feeding off of is waning and they begin to question your worthiness, that perhaps you weren’t so special after all, because if you were then the void wouldn’t still be there.They shower their targets with attention, compliments and literally sweep them off their feet.